Postmortem of Mulan’s argument with her mom
The time before she got really serious about moving out
- As Mulan gets better, she starts to tolerate it less
- not letting herself get pushed around
- Mulan still doesn’t really say much to her mom, doesn’t argue necessarily
- Mulan tries to not feel as guilty for pretty normal stuff
- Mulan gets angry when her mom yells at someone else or is saying something blatantly wrong
- Backstory: sister said she was allergic to tofu, mom made her eat it
- “don’t encourage her to say that she’s allergic to tofu”
- “if you’re not a doctor, don’t say stuff”
- “do you care more about being right, or do you care more about your daughter’s health”
- “how can you say something like that to your mom?” (The biggest thing that she keeps bringing out as her trump card)
This discussion petered down, but next time something like this happened, things got much more serious, and actual change happened: 202006050956
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